Loudies: The Volume-Pushing Individuals Who Make Life a Little Louder
Have you ever had that one friend where no matter how far away they always make every outing into a full concert? Maybe you have encountered someone who feels if they are not standing, screaming in your face then that is not talking? Shout your name if you want to pull over, as these are the people we love (or hate) and call **Loudies! They are the ones who resolve chaos in a crowded restaurant, or hush an argument at the library and even ruffle up their own sofa like tornadoes. So what is it that makes these people who push quantities so irresistible to watch? Yes, the Loudies let us jump into their world.
### What Makes a Loudie?
Being one of the Loudies is more than just about you having a loud voice. *They are the foghorn-people of these parts; you cannot miss them, ignore them and sometimes they’re a herculean pain in close range. They may be laughing, chatting or simply existing but man do they make themselves known. These are the ones you can hear from a football field away, because they just have no grasp of what it really means to use your indoor voice and assume that everyone else is as thrilled about their volume level as they are.
Here, though: Loudies themselves are not necessarily rude or obnoxious. So many of them are just exuberant, bouncing off the walls, genuinely full with LIFE. Their volume is oftentimes a manifestation of the force with which they love be it something specific, their favorite band or just the happiness associated being around others.
### The Science of Being Loud
Curious of the reason some are naturally louder than others? There is actually, science to it. *It is not merely loudspeaker-vocal cords. Personality, how you were raised and even cultural norms largely determine just how loud someone can be.
It is often the case loudies came from places where expressiveness was heard loudly. To many cultures, loudness and exuberance are outward signs of vivacity. While in the view of others it might be considered a confidence display and part of leadership. Thus, if you live with a Loudie and feel like screaming in frustration nine times out of ten — it often means that the volume is not loud for its own sake but an inherited/ acquired personality trait which may do your partner’s family proud.
Why – and How — to Be a Loudie
Being a Loudie actually has its advantages. * Because one, they cannot be ignored. And when you need to rally the troops, who better than a man whose shout can be heard through an entire bar? Their enthusiasm is contagious which might otherwise have been boring affairs, making others come out of their chasm.
Loudy — Comes through on public speaking and getting people to rally. Their presence and charisma can be an invaluable asset as leaders, performers or motivators. *Imagine if human megaphones had a party setting. *
### What it is like to Live With A Loudie
Living with or being around a Loudie is anything but easy. Imagine wanting to relax at home with a voice that hasn’t ever had an inside whisper. * It can be loud, and if you are someone who values peace and quiet over anything else it will not work.
Loudies can also accidentally hijack the conversations. Good luck trying to get in a word edgewise if you are talking with the wall that is a Loudie going on one of their rants. I appreciate his enthusiasm, but sometimes it sucks the air out of the room from everyone else. *It is like when you try to watch a movie and the TV volume is on 11, but at the same time someone uses remote control every passing 5 seconds. *
### How to Handle a Loudie
If you happen to have a Loudie, here are some strategies for getting along with the Loud:
- Set Boundaries: Kindly advise them that they’re getting a little too loud. (*I learned this one the hard way—you can say it nicely too e. g., “Hey guys your voice is louder than a rock concert,” or something similar) *
- **Go with the Flow:** Scroll donw.moveToFirst **Embrace the Volume. If you can´t beat them, Join the!* * Get excited when your Loudie gets all wrapped up in something for we have a way of transferring our excitement around like that. It could be even more enjoyable than you imagine.
- **Ground Lamb:** Bond with the Loudie over something you’re both jazzed about. Mostly it wouldn’t stress you out as much if their overenthusiasm is aimed at something that YOU are also super into! *It’s basically spinning a volume knob from 11 to an acceptable number. *
- **Look for Quiet Places:** If you need some time off, try to find a calm place where you can re-energize. ** Silence is golden when you are constantly surrounded by noise. *
Loudies Social Impact
In social dynamics, loudies can make a difference. They are usually the loudmouth, bringing masses together with their joie de vivre. *Take a dull get-together and make it memorable by the sheer force of their being. * They can be polarizing, too. Constant noise might not be everyone’s cup of tea and their loudness could feel invasive.
Loudies, obviously… Cause in a social setting they are the ones stealing your shine away! They are the ones which get noticed first, be it good or bad. The INTPs come along with so much excitement that they end up turning the social event into an intriguing and powerful one. (Or else you can be left with a path entirely too frilly, just like excess spice in food) Excessive, and can be overpowering. *
## The Loudie and the Quiet Soul: How to Balance yourself
The Loudie/quieter person dynamic can be a fragile one. They are forceful expression meets quiet introspection, as incompatible as oil and water. However, like all relationships it comes down to balance. *
The individuals are good in there positions. Some are loudies bringing energy and enthusiasm, others may be more into reflection giving the room a calm state. The two will energize each other, one vivacious and the other pondering. *picture someone running the music, and then there is somebody overrunning a chillout -zone. *
### Celebrating Loudies
In the final analysis, Loudies are a thread woven into our social fabric. They provide us with the cool stuff that adds life, color and energy. ( ok, sometimes they will give you a headache and moments when you wish for peace but their presence is also remember that this life needs to be loudly lived with passion too )
Therefore, the next time you find yourself in front of a Loudie. Let their energy inhabit yours! They somehow make way to remind us that life is not just existing but living fully, loudly and with relish. * Because come on man, without Loudies the world would be a lot less loud but also quite dry *
**To the Loudies**: to those cranking up the volume, hogging life of parties and familiar with human megaphones that remind us louder is sometimes better.